Advice for my Daughter – Day 14 of National Poetry Writing Month
Welcome to day fourteen of National Poetry Writing Month. Grace is currently away on a residential trip with her school. Whenever she is away, I start to think what it will be like when she has grown up and gone. I would like to help her not make the same mistakes as me when it comes to choosing a partner, so today’s poem is for her, ‘Advice for my Daughter’.
Advice for my Daughter
Don’t let them keep you a secret
Don’t let them string you along
Don’t let them take you for a fool
Because, my darling, it’s wrong
Don’t let them get away with lies
Don’t let them call you names
Don’t ever let them threaten you
My darling, you’re not always to blame
Don’t ever let them put you down
Don’t let them stop you seeing your friends
Don’t let them tell you how to dress
My darling, please make sure that it ends
Find someone who balances you
Find someone who admits when they’re wrong
Find someone who encourages you
They will make you feel strong
Find someone who shares with you
Find someone who is loving and kind
Find someone who compliments you
I hope this is the one you will find
Victoria Welton 14th April 2016


Wonderful and poignant words. So true. A moving poem x
Thank you so much Rebecca x
Beautiful words and very important for all mums to share with their daughters.
I hope Grace has had an amazing time on her trip.
Thank you so much Sarah x
Good advice for mother and daughter–and auntie and her best friend!!!
Thank you Judy x
Great advice. I love all your poems! I may borrow this one for my girls 🙂 x
Thank you so much Steph – and yes, please do x
That’s very moving
Thank you Antonia x